Etiquette & Social Norms

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Etiquette in the International Barking Brigade is the framework that allows diverse individuals to play together safely. This chapter outlines the formal "Mosh Pit Code of Conduct" and the social expectations for all Brigade-sanctioned events.

The Consent Framework

Consent is the bedrock of our community. In the IBB, we utilize the "Ask, Wait, Respect" model:

  1. Ask: Use a verbal or clear non-verbal cue to request interaction.
  2. Wait: Pause for a clear affirmative response. If the pup is non-verbal, look for a nudge, a tail wag, or an enthusiastic "yip."
  3. Respect: If the answer is "No" (or a Red signal), disengage immediately without question or pressure.

1. The Mosh Pit: Rules of the Mat

A "Mosh" is a designated play area, usually marked by mats. To ensure the safety of all participants, the following rules are mandatory:

Physical Safety Protocols
  • No Shoes on the Mat: Paws or socks only. This prevents injury from accidental stepping and maintains hygiene.
  • Trimmed Nails: Ensure both human and "canine" nails are trimmed to prevent accidental scratches during wrestling.
  • Remove Hard Jewelry: Watches, dangling earrings, and spiked collars (that aren't safety-rated) must be removed before entering the play area.
Entry and Exit Etiquette

Never "dive" into a mosh. Approach the edge of the mat, wait for a break in the action, and make eye contact with those already playing. When leaving, crawl to the perimeter—never stand up abruptly in the middle of a crowded mat, as this can lead to collisions.

2. The "Wall" and Spectators

The area surrounding the mats is known as "The Wall." Spectators play a vital role in community safety:

  • The "Active Observer": If you are on the wall, keep an eye out for "Red" signals or pups who look overwhelmed.
  • No Photography: To protect member privacy and OpSec, photography is strictly prohibited at IBB events unless a designated "Photo Zone" is provided.
  • Keep it Clear: Ensure the perimeter of the mat is free of bags, drinks, and human gear to allow for quick exits.

3. Pack Dynamics & Leadership

While the Brigade is inclusive, we respect established pack dynamics. If a pup is clearly "handled," always address the handler first out of respect for their dynamic. This isn't about human hierarchy; it's about respecting the headspace and boundaries of the pair.

De-escalation & Safe Words

In the heat of a mosh, barks can get loud and energy can get high. If you need to stop play immediately, use the universal safe word "RED" or "HUMAN." This signal requires an immediate cessation of all physical activity by everyone involved in that specific interaction.